J'Anmetra Waddell

For me, staying visible online, even when it wasn’t easy, meant reclaiming my voice and purpose as the ONLY Live Past Crazy Specialist. As a survivor of domestic violence, it was important for me to show others that there is life after crazy and chaos. There were countless moments of self-doubt, when the digital space felt like it wasn’t made for someone like me—someone who didn’t fit the mold. But I pushed through, because I knew my message could help others. What kept me showing up was the belief that if I could inspire just one person, it was worth it. It was a reminder that my journey wasn’t just for me; it was for those who needed to see someone who understood their pain, their challenges, and their dreams. I found ways to create connection, even in a virtual world. Whether through my Fearless Morning Show, Sister R.I.S.E Retreat, or podcast appearances, I embraced authenticity and vulnerability. It was about offering real conversations, sharing my story, and encouraging others to rise above their circumstances. Even when it felt like no one was listening, I trusted that the right people would hear what I had to say. If I could tell my younger self something, it would be this: Keep showing up, keep speaking your truth, and never let anyone tell you that you don’t belong in the digital space. Your voice is needed, your light matters, and you are exactly who you were meant to be. I would also remind her that self-love is the key to everything. When you love yourself fully, the world becomes a space you can thrive in.